You suck with women.
Socially awkward, and deeply introverted.
Hot women intimidate you.
You're not getting laid with Beautiful Attractive Women.
In short, you'll die without ever tasting God's pièce de résistance.
If you're a hyper-masculine man, you have to master the Art of Attraction.
Otherwise, you'll miss out on one of the finest experience in life, which is the enjoyment and true appreciation of the feminine energy and Beauty.
Women are the most powerful Inspirators in life, they power you up so you can be more competent in your Mission and Vision.
A feminine woman will radiate healing energy that permeates in every aspect of your life. Every high-caliber Woman you interact with offers you a unique view of the world and a profound lesson as long as you live with an open heart.
Fill your mind with Beauty so you can build Beautiful things.
Confidence, Bravery, and Goggins mode is ONLY gonna be learn by going through thousands of rejections, learning from each one, and still pushing through irregardless.
The path to mastering Attraction will give you a high degree of confidence that will allow you to take the brave choice. This trait will spill all over your life, ameliorating unnecessary suffering.
You avoid years of miserable marriage with a partner that doesn't really suits your unique traits, attitude, and temperance. This alone is so fucking worth it, the whole world is filled with failing marriages, divorces, and abuse.
50% of Society's problem will get resolved instantly if every man can be with his version of a 10.
Productivity will skyrocket. Hateful, vengeful, bitter men will dissipate as if by magic.
Broken families will become extinct. If every man is content with his partner, divorce rates could plummet, leading to more intact families. In turn drug addicts will lessen dramatically since 83% of drug addicts have a broken family.
You can do it
Men are not judged by our looks, we are judged by our level of Competency.
Einstein, Mike Tyson, David Goggins are all considered below-average looks. But they are all revered as GOATS, we look upon them as something to emulate and aspire to be.
Looks are unchangeable. Competency can be trained at arms-reach by anyone.
The greatest thing about being a Man is you start from Zero, and by being dedicated and strategic you can turn yourself into a Hero.
You build your own character.
You can choose to be rich smart wise and brave.
You can choose to be a superhero.
Ever since I was a kid I'm deeply introverted, so naturally I spent most of my time alone, reading books, immersing myself in deep thoughts.
The byproduct of it is I become socially awkward, struggle with basic interaction with people, which reinforces my desire to be alone.
Eventually I realized that for my Business to work, I'll need to go out there and master Socialization. Plus I wanna fuck beautiful women.
Social skill is mandatory. You'll never be successful without interacting with different types of people from all walks of life. To be a leader means having the ability to muster your soldiers and fight in unity.
So the Journey began. I learned from the masters, from RSD Tyler and Julien, devoured hundreds of hours of pickup content.
Every Friday and Saturday I would go to a club all alone and just stay there in the corner, I don't even talk to anyone (Like a creep). The first few months I'll go home in the verge of tears because I got zero pulls.
Pickup has a steep learning curve. You often get rejected than not, it's unpleasant to handle 3 rejections a night, let alone 300 a month.
The path is treacherous, it takes months of trial and error, just to get small results. Success feels like dying and being reborn every day.
But I still kept going.
The commitment is for 3 years straight I would go out to a club every Friday and Saturday, and approach attractive women.
I started with zero for a few weeks, then 5, then 10.
Progressive overload until I'm interacting with 30 birds per week. (Took me a year)
Then spent years picking up women.
I built a System
I'll message a Chick who matched with me on Tinder, or Bumble.
"Madam coffee date."
Set whatever day she is free, and I choose the Time after my work is done, and the location is the Coffee shop I work in.
The morning routine I followed is,
1. Go to Coffee shop.
2. Turn on focus music.
3. Deepwork for 4 hours.
4. Coffee date right on the spot.
5. Go to the Gym.
Everyday I work for 4 hours, then have a Date 3-5 times per week.
Friday and Saturday night, I'll go to a bar, and cold approach a total of 30 women who I find attractive.
That's my weekly routine for 3 years straight.
After your 134th pull, you become indispensable.
You'll realize the treasure is NOT getting unlimited Sex, nor the pleasure of lust.
The real Treasure is about who you become, the character you build.
Game teaches you to get comfortable with Uncertainty, Social pressure, and Outcome independence.
The same skills that make you attractive to women make you attractive to:
- Investors
- Business Partners
- High-value people
Social mastery is Life Mastery.
PHD
There is only two-step Strategy to get this shit done.
Focus on developing yourself to be a high-value man.
Increase your number of interactions with attractive women per week.
The prerequisite of being with a high-value woman is first to be a high-value man.
A top dog is confident, unapologetic, humorous, competent, and stoic. A provider and a Protector.
Women are fundamentally drawn to Masculine Energy. They are attracted to their Polar opposite.
Confidence - a man who has balls, sure of himself, and Unapologetic irregardless of societal norm.
Sense of Humor - everybody knows this shit.
Physical appeal and Grooming - Shredded, sharply dressed, clean and smelling nice.
Edginess or Emotional stimulation - Women crave an emotional roller coaster of highs, lows, and drama, stimulating a wide range of feelings rather than just positives, creating subconscious excitement and addiction through varied emotional deltas that build deep, memorable connections.
Sense of Purpose and Detachment: Women does Not really want to be number one.
So Get your shit together. Work hard on bettering yourself.
Focus on the Mission and Vision.
Dedicate one hour every day on training martial arts.
Fix your shitty nutrition.
Learn how to dress smart and maintain a good hygiene.
Study Humor, and train it everyday.
Then aim to interact with 30 new attractive women per week.
Study the systems of the world's top pick-up artist. Test it all out, then build your own.
Absorb what is useful, disregard what is not, and add to what's uniquely your own.
Thanks for reading.
The art of Attraction is in-depth. It must be study and trained for a long, long time.
If you want to reach absolute Mastery of attraction, send me a message @oplanlikha and I'll coach you 1:1.
